The 1st Kind of Love is Eros: This is the kind of love that takes place when somebody is sexually attracted to somebody. The media uses this kind of love to gain attraction. For instance, to attract people to buy a product, they present a seductive woman that people may be attracted to. Eros is the root word for erotic. Is possible to have this kind of love for a massive number of people 1 Kings 11:1-3 But king Solomon loved many strange women, together with the daughter of Pharaoh, women of the Moabites, Ammonites, Edomites, Zidonians, [and] Hittites; Of the nations [concerning] which the LORD said unto the children of Israel, Ye shall not go in to them, neither shall they come in unto you: [for] surely they will turn away your heart after their gods: Solomon clave unto these in love. And he had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred concubines: and his wives turned away his heart.(KJV). For instance, Solomon in the Bible had this kind of love to a lot of women. This love is very noisy but has no substance. When you see men that has such love, the moment they get what they want, you will find them no more. This kind of love does not come from the soul but from the body. 2 Samuel 13:14-15 Howbeit he would not hearken unto her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her. Then Amnon hated her exceedingly; so that the hatred wherewith he hated her [was] greater than the love wherewith he had loved her. And Amnon said unto her, Arise, be gone.(KJV). If attraction is the fundamental for your relationship, then it is bound to fail. Eros is usually very dirty. What governs this kind of love is lust, satisfaction physically speaking. This kind of love can quench very easily. If you are a woman who wants to get married to a man focusing on physical appearance, then you are bound to have problem. You don’t focus on the container and leave the content. A woman whose dressing is to attract men can actually attract and get them but when they come in and see that there is nothing better inside her, they will flee.
Another Kind Of Love is Agape Love: This is the noiseless flame. It is the kind of love that God has. Is a commitment to the welfare of another person. Every human being can actually exercise this kind of love. When you are getting married, you must be committed to the person you want to marry. The highest level of relationship is the commitment level. Before you get into a commitment to a person, you have to be very sure you will maintain the commitment. Courtship is not a time for intercourse but a time for interview. A relationship is something you need to give time and ensure you know the person before you make the promise.
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