TEST OF TRUE LOVE
THERE ARE 3 DIFFERENT KINDS OF LOVE The 1st Kind of Love is Eros: This is the kind of love that takes place when somebody is sexually attracted to somebody. The media uses this kind of love to gain attraction. For instance, to attract people to buy a product, they present a seductive woman that people may be attracted to. Eros is the root word for erotic. Is possible to have this kind of love for a massive number of people 1 Kings 11:1-3 But king Solomon loved many strange women, together with the daughter of Pharaoh, women of the Moabites, Ammonites, Edomites, Zidonians, [and] Hittites; Of the nations [concerning] which the LORD said unto the children of Israel, Ye shall not go in to them, neither shall they come in unto you: [for] surely they will turn away your heart after their gods: Solomon clave unto these in love. And he had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred concubines: and his wives turned away his heart.(KJV). For instance, Solomon in the Bible had this kind of love to a lot of women. This love is very noisy but has no substance. When you see men that has such love, the moment they get what they want, you will find them no more. This kind of love does not come from the soul but from the body. 2 Samuel 13:14-15 Howbeit he would not hearken unto her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her. Then Amnon hated her exceedingly; so that the hatred wherewith he hated her [was] greater than the love wherewith he had loved her. And Amnon said unto her, Arise, be gone.(KJV). If attraction is the fundamental for your relationship, then it is bound to fail. Eros is usually very dirty. What governs this kind of love is lust, satisfaction physically speaking. This kind of love can quench very easily. If you are a woman who wants to get married to a man focusing on physical appearance, then you are bound to have problem. You don’t focus on the container and leave the content. A woman whose dressing is to attract men can actually attract and get them but when they come in and see that there is nothing better inside her, they will flee. Another Kind Of Love is Agape Love: This is the noiseless flame. It is the kind of love that God has. Is a commitment to the welfare of another person. Every human being can actually exercise this kind of love. When you are getting married, you must be committed to the person you want to marry. The highest level of relationship is the commitment level. Before you get into a commitment to a person, you have to be very sure you will maintain the commitment. Courtship is not a time for intercourse but a time for interview. A relationship is something you need to give time and ensure you know the person before you make the promise. There Are 7 Tests Of True Relationship 1. The Giving Test: This is sacrifice test. Genuine love is all about sacrifice, all giving is not loving, but all genuine loving results in giving John 3:16. If you cannot sacrifice for that person is very likely you don’t love him/her. 2nd Is the Friction Test: There is negative and positive friction. Friction is inevitable. There is no way you can have a relationship without having a friction. Proverbs 10:12 says: Hatred stirreth up strifes: but love covereth all sins.(KJV). Genuine love is very easy to manage 3rd Is The Admiration Test: How do you see the person you want to get married to? This is the major test. 4th Is The Crisis Test: How do you handle crisis with the person you want to get married to when crisis come. What happens when your parents are against your marriage with that person? What do you do when something happens between you and the person? 5th Is the Habit Test: Are you able to endure certain things that the person does? Are you able to endure certain attitudes of the person you want to marry? You have to tell yourself the truth about these things before you commit yourself 6th Is The Trust Test: How do you feel when you open up things to the person you are in a relationship with? Is him/her a kind of person you can trust? Trust is imperative to a successful relationship. Trust is fundamental. Ask yourself is this person someone you can actually trust. Trust is built on competence and character. You must consider these mostly trust base on character. 7th Is The Forgiveness Test: there are certain people is easier for you to forgive than others. Is it easier for you to forgive the person you want to marry? You need to look carefully before you commit yourself for a relationship.
THERE ARE 3 DIFFERENT KINDS OF LOVE The 1st Kind of Love is Eros: This is the kind of love that takes place when somebody is sexually attracted to somebody. The media uses this kind of love to gain attraction. For instance, to attract people to buy a product, they present a seductive woman that people may be attracted to. Eros is the root word for erotic. Is possible to have this kind of love for a massive number of people 1 Kings 11:1-3 But king Solomon loved many strange women, together with the daughter of Pharaoh, women of the Moabites, Ammonites, Edomites, Zidonians, [and] Hittites; Of the nations [concerning] which the LORD said unto the children of Israel, Ye shall not go in to them, neither shall they come in unto you: [for] surely they will turn away your heart after their gods: Solomon clave unto these in love. And he had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred concubines: and his wives turned away his heart.(KJV). For instance, Solomon in the Bible had this kind of love to a lot of women. This love is very noisy but has no substance. When you see men that has such love, the moment they get what they want, you will find them no more. This kind of love does not come from the soul but from the body. 2 Samuel 13:14-15 Howbeit he would not hearken unto her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her. Then Amnon hated her exceedingly; so that the hatred wherewith he hated her [was] greater than the love wherewith he had loved her. And Amnon said unto her, Arise, be gone.(KJV). If attraction is the fundamental for your relationship, then it is bound to fail. Eros is usually very dirty. What governs this kind of love is lust, satisfaction physically speaking. This kind of love can quench very easily. If you are a woman who wants to get married to a man focusing on physical appearance, then you are bound to have problem. You don’t focus on the container and leave the content. A woman whose dressing is to attract men can actually attract and get them but when they come in and see that there is nothing better inside her, they will flee. Another Kind Of Love is Agape Love: This is the noiseless flame. It is the kind of love that God has. Is a commitment to the welfare of another person. Every human being can actually exercise this kind of love. When you are getting married, you must be committed to the person you want to marry. The highest level of relationship is the commitment level. Before you get into a commitment to a person, you have to be very sure you will maintain the commitment. Courtship is not a time for intercourse but a time for interview. A relationship is something you need to give time and ensure you know the person before you make the promise. There Are 7 Tests Of True Relationship 1. The Giving Test: This is sacrifice test. Genuine love is all about sacrifice, all giving is not loving, but all genuine loving results in giving John 3:16. If you cannot sacrifice for that person is very likely you don’t love him/her. 2nd Is the Friction Test: There is negative and positive friction. Friction is inevitable. There is no way you can have a relationship without having a friction. Proverbs 10:12 says: Hatred stirreth up strifes: but love covereth all sins.(KJV). Genuine love is very easy to manage 3rd Is The Admiration Test: How do you see the person you want to get married to? This is the major test. 4th Is The Crisis Test: How do you handle crisis with the person you want to get married to when crisis come. What happens when your parents are against your marriage with that person? What do you do when something happens between you and the person? 5th Is the Habit Test: Are you able to endure certain things that the person does? Are you able to endure certain attitudes of the person you want to marry? You have to tell yourself the truth about these things before you commit yourself 6th Is The Trust Test: How do you feel when you open up things to the person you are in a relationship with? Is him/her a kind of person you can trust? Trust is imperative to a successful relationship. Trust is fundamental. Ask yourself is this person someone you can actually trust. Trust is built on competence and character. You must consider these mostly trust base on character. 7th Is The Forgiveness Test: there are certain people is easier for you to forgive than others. Is it easier for you to forgive the person you want to marry? You need to look carefully before you commit yourself for a relationship.
