Saturday, 21 June 2014

THE QUALITIES THAT ENABLES A SINGLE GIRL TO ATTRACT A GOOD HUSBAND


The characters you need to develop as a single lady.
You have to cultivate them intentionally even if you don’t have them. You have to be a woman of integrity. Men are attracted by that. 

a. TRUE BEAUTY: is a combination of seven characters.
1. A BEAUTIFUL SPIRIT OR A MILK AND QUIET SPIRIT.
You have to be beautiful not just on the outside but even before God. Your priority should be what God is saying about you.

1 Peter 3:1-4 says: Likewise, ye wives, [be] in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; While they behold your chaste conversation [coupled] with fear. Whose adorning let it not be that outward [adorning] of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; But [let it be] the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, [even the ornament] of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.(KJV)
This is what makes you different from other women. This is what men want, every woman should be kind.
Proverbs 31:26 says: She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue [is] the law of kindness.(KJV).
You have to control even the way you talk and laugh. 

2. CHARM AND GRACEFULNESS
Men like women who are kind and considerate.
Proverbs 11:16 says: A gracious woman retaineth honour: and strong [men] retain riches.(KJV)

Men love feminine women; you have to let your feminity be seen. You don’t have to behave like a man when things come up, remain the woman you are. 

3. ANOINTED SPIRIT
You may not be physically beautiful, but if you seek God’s face you will attract good people. As you spend time in God’s presence something starts changing inside you. You don’t need to advertise yourself before any man. Any man that meets you meets Christ. Is only when you stop living the life of the spirit that issues begins to worry you. Even if men are bad, they like women that carry God’s presence. 

4. GOOD AND DECENT APPEARANCE
Men are moved by what they see; they are attracted by what they see. Some sisters are clueless about how to put themselves together. Some ladies don’t know what fits them. You don’t have to do Brazilian hair because others are doing it. There is a kind of dress you should wear as a woman. You have to find the dresses that fit you. 

5. EDUCATION
You should be able to hold conversion with guys. Be ready to learn, read newspapers, guys want ladies

6. HOLINESS.
Romans 12:1 says: I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service.(NKJV)

1 Corinthians 7:32-33 says: But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please [his] wife.(KJV)

The only thing that God wants from you is how to please Him. You should be asking God how He can help you please and serve Him better. Keep your eyes on Him. This should be your foundation. 

8. DOMESTICATED AND HOMELY
Every man wants a homely woman; the man wants a woman that is homely and domesticated. He wants a woman that will be able to take care of the home and tidy up things. Men want a woman that can manage resources.

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Wednesday, 18 June 2014

SKILLS FOR FULFILLING YOUR PURPOSE IN LIFE.


Whenever wisdom is spoken, it is attached with time management. Time is an irredeemable resource. You will never have again this second that just past. Whenever God speaks of time in the bible, He is talking about wisdom.
When there is outpouring of the Holy Spirit, He comes with picture (vision) that will energize you, you will get a fresh picture whenever you encounter the Holy Spirit.

Psalm 90:10-15
The days of our lives are seventy years; And if by reason of strength they are eighty years, Yet their boast is only labor and sorrow; For it is soon cut off, and we fly away. Who knows the power of Your anger? For as the fear of You, so is Your wrath. So teach us to number our days, That we may gain a heart of wisdom. Return, O LORD! How long? And have compassion on Your servants. Oh, satisfy us early with Your mercy, That we may rejoice and be glad all our days! Make us glad according to the days in which You have afflicted us, The years in which we have seen evil.(NKJV)

With revival come God’s blue print. God has a design concerning everything that concerns you. There was a purpose and a plan even before you were born. When rival breaks out, restoration comes with it. 

Psalm 90:16 says: Let Your work appear to Your servants, And Your glory to their children.(NKJV)

When you start a project without God’s blue print you will be left on your own and you should also be ready to sponsor it. What do you want success for? Genuine success is doing the will of God. Provision is that thing that is given to support the vision. If there is no vision, there will be no provision. Your vision is not your own, it is your discovery.
Every great man in the bible always seeks God’s pattern 

Genesis 12:1 says; Now the LORD had said to Abram: "Get out of your country, From your family And from your father's house, To a land that I will show you.(NKJV)

1 Chronicles 13:1-3
Then David consulted with the captains of thousands and hundreds, and with every leader. And David said to all the assembly of Israel, "If it seems good to you, and if it is of the LORD our God, let us send out to our brethren everywhere who are left in all the land of Israel, and with them to the priests and Levites who are in their cities and their common-lands, that they may gather together to us; and let us bring the ark of our God back to us, for we have not inquired at it since the days of Saul."(NKJV)

There are two sets of builders. One is the Lord and the other the people who build physically. This does not mean that God is physically building the house. Except the lord shows you the prototype, except the Lord gives you the blue print, you are building in vein. 

Psalm 127:1 says; Unless the LORD builds the house, They labor in vain who build it; Unless the LORD guards the city, The watchman stays awake in vain.(NKJV)

You need to identify the proper people, the people that God has placed beside you.
Psalm 90:16 says: Let Your work appear to Your servants, And Your glory to their children.(NKJV)

This does not necessarily mean your biological children. This is your network. If you have all the resources that you need to build your vision that means the vision is not from God.
Genuine revival produces grace and favour. 

Psalm 90:17 says: And let the beauty of the LORD our God be upon us, And establish the work of our hands for us; Yes, establish the work of our hands.(NKJV)
Whatever God did not establish in your life will not be fulfilled. The keeping power of God can keep every benefit of salvation.

Sunday, 15 June 2014

KEYS TO EXPANDING YOUR WORD

Your growth is dependent on the size of your world. Your world is the space you have to function. Whatever you get in life depends on the world you function in. The biggest inhibiting factor is the internal factors. Your biggest victory is internal. Every defeat begins from the inside as every victory begins from the inside. 

This is the period of harvest. God works with calendar. God requires us to be able to tell the seasons and time. We have the Holy Ghost within us and salvation. God requires to know where we are at every point in time. 
Luke 5:1-5 says: So it was, as the multitude pressed about Him to hear the word of God, that He stood by the Lake of Gennesaret, and saw two boats standing by the lake; but the fishermen had gone from them and were washing their nets. Then He got into one of the boats, which was Simon's, and asked him to put out a little from the land. And He sat down and taught the multitudes from the boat. When He had stopped speaking, He said to Simon, "Launch out into the deep and let down your nets for a catch." But Simon answered and said to Him, "Master, we have toiled all night and caught nothing; nevertheless at Your word I will let down the net."(NKJV)

Sometimes someone has a problem and you ask him “do you want to be delivered from this problem?” and you find him telling the story of his problem because he believe that when he do that, he will win sympathy. God is not moved by sympathy but He can have compass. As Jesus instructed Simon Peter, Simon Peter did not end up in disobedience but he surmounted his past experience and let down the net. Whatever you get from God is dependent on you. God does not determine your capacity, what you ask for is what He will do for you. Your harvest will never go beyond your capacity to receive. 

God does not confirm your word, He confirms His word. God’s word supersedes all our wisdom and experiences. You just have to act on it. God is responsible for only what He says and not what you say. If you have to get Him working in your life, say what He is saying only. God wants you to study His word so that you can know His spirit. The spirit of the word is the motive behind the word. If God is asking you for instance to live a holy life, what does He stands to benefit and what does the man loose when he does not obey. Before God’s word can change your situation it will first change your mind. He transforms you internally and then He transforms you externally. No matter what God is saying over your situation, you must say what He is saying before it will come to pass. 


Keys To Expanding Your World.
1. Thanksgiving:
Whatever you thank God for will flourish. You might not be where you want to be but you thank God because you are not where you used to be. God inhabits the praises of His people. Nothing finishes in the hand of a thanks-giver. A barren woman cannot produce fruit. There are particular defeats in your family, unproductivity is following. The first thing you do in a crisis determines what happens to you in that crisis. You need to make positive declarations. 

Isaiah 54:1 says: "Sing, barren woman, who has never had a baby. Fill the air with song, you who've never experienced childbirth! You're ending up with far more children than all those childbearing women." GOD says so!(MSG)

You have to stop complaining and begin to give thanks to God; murmuring strengthens the hands of satan over a bad situation. Nothing dries up in the hands of a thanks-giver. God is so big that He cannot owe anybody, He will not receive glory and you remain in that situation you are giving Him thanks. As you thank Him you will begin to see the manifestation, thanksgiving establishes you. 

2. Take Personal Responsibility
Isaiah 54:2 says: "Enlarge the place of your tent, And let them stretch out the curtains of your dwellings; Do not spare; Lengthen your cords, And strengthen your stakes.(NKJV)

You need not to give all the responsibilities to God. The bible said enlarge your tent, take responsibility. When you see a man that cannot take responsibility he will never provide solution. There is no one who take personal responsibility and still does well. God ask Adam not to eat of the tree, but Adam said it was the woman you gave me. He refuses to take responsibility. God gave talent to 3 people and the last one hid the talent and God punished him for doing that. Saw refused to do what God ask him to do and when God asked him, he said it is the people that decided to keep them. Irresponsibility is what God does not tolerate. Stop blaming people for your problems and where you are. You have to take personal responsibility over circumstances and responsibilities. 


3. Step Out in Faith:
You need to begin to act on the pictures of your vision that you are seeing. Faith requires corresponding action, if you don’t act it out, it will not manifest. It might look like you are faking it, but you are manifesting it soonest. Sometimes you need to move out of the people and begin to act out your conviction. Stop burdening about what people are saying about you. You need to begin to act out what you believe. 

Isaiah 54:1-3 says: "Sing, barren woman, who has never had a baby. Fill the air with song, you who've never experienced childbirth! You're ending up with far more children than all those childbearing women." GOD says so! "Clear lots of ground for your tents! Make your tents large. Spread out! Think big! Use plenty of rope, drive the tent pegs deep. You're going to need lots of elbow room for your growing family. You're going to take over whole nations; you're going to resettle abandoned cities.(MSG)

4. Your Confession:
With your mouth you expand your world. To get something bigger in life you need to start speaking it. You need to tell yourself you are rising better. Start saying what you want to see, voice out your expectation and you see it manifesting. 

5. Information
What limits you is what you don’t know. The number one force that limits you is ignorance. You need to acquire information to expand your world.

6. Networking
Anything that can be achieved can be transferred. You need to build relationships and expand your world, sometimes you need to change your environment and some relationships. Interact with the right kind of people and surround yourself with people that inspire you and not people that expires you. 

7. Prayer

8. Seed Sowing
Proverbs 11:24 says: There is one who scatters, yet increases more; And there is one who withholds more than is right, But it leads to poverty.(NKJV)
The two people here are givers, the first one gives without limitation and the second gives and withholds what he should give and his giving produces poverty. 

Proverbs 11:24-25 says: The world of the generous gets larger and larger; the world of the stingy gets smaller and smaller. The one who blesses others is abundantly blessed; those who help others are helped.(MSG)