The characters
you need to develop as a single lady.
You have to cultivate them intentionally even if you
don’t have them. You have to be a woman of integrity. Men are attracted by
that.
a. TRUE
BEAUTY: is a combination of seven characters.
1. A
BEAUTIFUL SPIRIT OR A MILK AND QUIET SPIRIT.
You have to be beautiful not just on the outside but
even before God. Your priority should be what God is saying about you.
1 Peter 3:1-4
says: Likewise, ye wives, [be] in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any
obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of
the wives; While they behold your chaste conversation [coupled] with fear.
Whose adorning let it not be that outward [adorning] of plaiting the hair, and
of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; But [let it be] the hidden man
of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, [even the ornament] of a meek
and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.(KJV)
This is what makes you different from other women. This
is what men want, every woman should be kind.
Proverbs 31:26 says: She openeth her mouth with
wisdom; and in her tongue [is] the law of kindness.(KJV).
You have to control even the way you talk and laugh.
2. CHARM AND
GRACEFULNESS
Men like women
who are kind and considerate.
Proverbs 11:16
says: A gracious woman retaineth honour: and strong [men] retain riches.(KJV)
Men love feminine women; you have to let your
feminity be seen. You don’t have to behave like a man when things come up,
remain the woman you are.
3. ANOINTED
SPIRIT
You may not be physically beautiful, but if you seek
God’s face you will attract good people. As you spend time in God’s presence
something starts changing inside you. You don’t need to advertise yourself
before any man. Any man that meets you meets Christ. Is only when you stop
living the life of the spirit that issues begins to worry you. Even if men are
bad, they like women that carry God’s presence.
4. GOOD AND DECENT
APPEARANCE
Men are moved by what they see; they are attracted
by what they see. Some sisters are clueless about how to put themselves
together. Some ladies don’t know what fits them. You don’t have to do Brazilian
hair because others are doing it. There is a kind of dress you should wear as a
woman. You have to find the dresses that fit you.
5. EDUCATION
You should be able to hold conversion with guys. Be ready
to learn, read newspapers, guys want ladies
6. HOLINESS.
Romans 12:1
says: I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you
present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your
reasonable service.(NKJV)
1 Corinthians
7:32-33 says: But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried
careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: But
he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may
please [his] wife.(KJV)
The only thing that God wants from you is how to
please Him. You should be asking God how He can help you please and serve Him
better. Keep your eyes on Him. This should be your foundation.
8. DOMESTICATED
AND HOMELY
Every man wants a homely woman; the man wants a
woman that is homely and domesticated. He wants a woman that will be able to
take care of the home and tidy up things. Men want a woman that can manage
resources.
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